Aubrey O'Day (born February 11, 1984) is an American singer, actress,
songwriter, fashion designer, and former member of the girl group
Danity Kane. On the October 7, 2008
episode of Making the Band, Aubrey was declared no longer a member of the
group. Confirmation of O'Day's departure was revealed in the show's live
October 14, 2008 episode.
In addition to O'Day's work with Danity Kane, she has posed for magazines
such as Blender and Playboy, as well as starred on Broadway.
Biography
Aubrey developed a passion for entertaining at age five, after performing on
stage for the first time. "I lived on the stage, and even at six, slept
behind the seats of the theatre," she stated in an interview. According to
her mother, when Aubrey was six, she was at a performance of The Nutcracker
and started to cry. Her mother asked her during intermission what was wrong;
Aubrey recalls that moment as the one she "officially" realized her love for
entertainment.
Aubrey pursued her love of performing through various leads in musical
productions, including Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz, Carmen in Fame, Sandy in
Grease, Liesl in The Sound of Music, Tzeitel in Fiddler on the Roof, and
Mimi in Rent. She also appeared in Annie. O'Day's childhood leaned heavily
towards auditions and acting gigs more than school. Biggie and Diddy were
her primary influences as a child.
Aubrey attended La Quinta High School in the early 2000s. She later majored
in Political science and Drama at the University of California, Irvine, and
was a member of the Alpha Chi Omega Sorority.
Aubrey was discovered in 2004 on the MTV reality show Making the Band 3,
founded by Sean "Diddy" Combs, and emerged as the show's breakout star.
During Season 2 of Making the Band 3 while the competition was still
ongoing, Blender Magazine contacted Aubrey to pose for their September 2005
issue. The magazine described her as the contestant "who bared calm resolve
and tanned hip bones in beating out almost 10,000 girls for the chance at
singing and strutting in a P. Diddy–steered girl group". Aubrey expressed
anxiety about competing to be in the group. "I’ve been in the ‘cut’
situation several times," she stated. "It’s hard to stand in a room and know
that the dream I want is all in Combs’s hands." Aubrey had dropped out of
college in order to participate in the competition. She had been thinking of
attending Columbia Law.
After seeing her dance, Combs was convinced that Aubrey had "Black in her
family" and further expressed this sentiment after watching her sing a
version of "At Last" at a club during Season 1 of the show. This, along with
what viewers saw as natural charisma, helped endear her to become a
consistent favorite among judges and fans. Former Backstreet Boys and 'N
Sync manager Johnny Wright, who served as one of the judges on the show,
stated from her first audition in Los Angeles they knew that she was "a
star".
"It’s extreme," Aubrey relayed of the competition. "There’s a lot of ‘I love
to be in the spotlight’ types—including myself." In response to being told
that Combs wanted the type of stars who were stars when they were age 2,
Aubrey stated, "Well, I was Aubrey when I was 2. A diva from the beginning."
Aubrey was eventually chosen to be in the group, and was the first member
included. The band became known as Danity Kane, and their first album
debuted on August 22, 2006, at #1 on the Billboard 200 charts. The group was
the opening act for Christina Aguilera on the U.S. leg of her Back to Basics
Tour with the Pussycat Dolls.
O'Day's fame and physical features found appealing by magazines helped her
broaden her career beyond the group. In addition to other musical projects,
she posed for several "sexy" magazine spreads. On August 28, 2008 in an
episode of Making the Band, due to being consistently frustrated with
O'Day's "oversexed" new image, Combs called Aubrey "one of the worst
dancers" in Danity Kane. He told Aubrey that she no longer looked like the
girl he signed and that she used to be one of the best. Combs bluntly
accused Aubrey of trying to expand her fame at the expense of the entire
group, and that she liked flaunting her breasts and wearing big hair —
referring to an incident where she had rubbed her cleavage on the arm of a
television host. Furious, Combs asked himself on television why he was
keeping Aubrey in the group.
On the October 7, 2008 episode of Making the Band, after continued debate
with Aubrey about the well-being of the group, Combs declared Aubrey no
longer a member of Danity Kane. An official announcement, however, had not
been made from Bad Boy Records. When asked by Boston Herald whether she was
still in the group, Aubrey was reluctant to answer and stated, "I can’t
comment on anything, I’m sorry."
Speculation arose that Combs firing Aubrey was a ratings ploy and that he
had no intention of truly dismissing her. When discussing her career, O’Day
would still refer to herself as a "member of a girl band" and "the official
party girl of Danity Kane". On the October 14, 2008 episode of Making the
Band, however, O'Day's departure from the group was confirmed, as well as
fellow bandmate and best friend D. Woods. In the live section of the
episode, Combs explained that the reason he let Aubrey go was that she was
not the same person he signed, that the fame had changed her. When Aubrey
came on to reply, she stated: "I would rather be hated every damn day of my
life for being real than loved for being something I'm not." In a backstage
interview before the finale, Aubrey said:
"Tonight is a representation of the end of a chapter in my life; it's not
the end of the book. I will do everything possible to make my mark on this
industry, and Danity Kane and Combs provided me with this amazing
opportunity to go out and really touch people's hearts. I think the way that
we were able to inspire people was something that I will never be able to
achieve in that way again in my life."
MTV News gauged fan reactions to the dismissal of Aubrey and Woods. Fans
left impassioned, long and detailed comments on the MTV News site about
their discontent regarding the group's breakup. The new season of Making the
Band was expected to include new members auditioning as "replacements" for
Aubrey and Woods in Danity Kane, but will instead show the official end of
the group. The complete breakup of the group was originally thought to be
the result of Aubrey and Woods, along with group member Shannon Bex,
declining the offer to return to the series and the group. This was later
argued by O'Day, who stated that while she was unsure if Woods was asked
back, she herself was not asked to return. Aubrey said that if offered, she
would have returned and is not against returning. She was "officially"
released from her Bad Boy Records contract by Combs in the April 16, 2009
episode of Making the Band.
In the April 23, 2009 finale of the show, Aubrey returned with three former
members of the group to clear up any misconceptions about the group's
breakup. She said that she has forgiven being released from the group, and
people who blamed her for the group's demise. Combs said that if he ever
puts the group back together, Aubrey and the group's other four members
would be returning as Danity Kane.
In 2006, Aubrey ranked #86 on Maxim's Hot 100 list, #81 on Blender's 100
Hottest People list, and posed for the magazines. She walked the catwalk at
Heatherette's Fall 2007 runway show at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week held on
February 6, and recorded a song with R&B singer Cupid written and produced
by D. Harold; Mischke, and T. Thomas, whose title is "Do Yo Dance" and was
the new single from Cupid's album Time For A Change. Aubrey was later
replaced on the album with Christina Milian.
In January 2008, Aubrey briefly became the face of Famous Stars and Straps,
and landed the role as Amber Von Tussle in the Broadway musical Hairspray on
July 16, 2008. In addition, she appeared in the comedy American High School
costarring Nikki Ziering, which was released in August 2008. Aubrey later
made a cameo appearance in Estelle's music video for "Pretty Please" the
same month.
Further utilizing her success, Aubrey started her own clothing line called
Heart on My Sleeve, which features T-shirts and accessories available only
online. She posed topless for men's magazine Complex. The publication
stated, "With All Due Respect to the other girls in Danity Kane, it's easy
to see why Combs built his group around Aubrey O'Day. Simply put, Aubrey is
that chick: the stunner who attracts paparazzi and Broadway producers alike,
and the talent least likely to fall into post-reality-show abyss." The
magazine also commented on the animosity Aubrey receives from several
outlets, such as blog sites, as well as from message board fans, who have
come to despise the attention Aubrey attracts from the media and the current
image she has crafted of herself.
In late 2008, Aubrey made a guest appearance on the reality show 50 Cent:
The Money and the Power. She to be the covergirl for Playboy for the March
2009 issue. Additionally, Aubrey has been featured on the covers of Jadore,
Image, Palm Springs Life, King, Right On!, Dub and Envy. She has done
features for GQ, In Touch Weekly and Us Weekly.
On the April 23, 2009 finale of Making the Band, Aubrey revealed that she
will have her own reality television show. She is also reading scripts for
consideration in starring in feature films.
After graduating from high school and deciding to go to college, Aubrey
spent a semester at sea where she developed a passion for helping charities.
She worked with service organizations while touring in different countries,
as well as refugee centers, orphanages, and mostly with children with AIDS.
She volunteered as a Big Sister to an organization called Pink Project, and
helped victims of the Hurricane Katrina devastation. Motivated by her
passion for charity, Aubrey soon created her own organization, called F*A*N
(Fighting Aids Now). The charity's goal is to give therapy and art to
children in hospitals.
While competing to be in the band, Aubrey formed a strong connection with
fellow contestant Aundrea Fimbres. The two made it through two seasons
together, gaining a large and loyal fanbase before Combs chose them to be in
the group, Aubrey first and Fimbres last. Viewers named the two "the Aus"
and "Aubrea" (portmanteux of their first names put together), and the women
declared each other best friends forever in the Season 2 finale of the
series. O'Day's friendship with Fimbres, however, later became distant.
On The Wendy Williams Show on August 12, 2008, Aubrey stated that she
previously dated DJ Cassidy. She refuted rumors of ever having plastic
surgery or dating boss Sean Combs. In addition, she declared then-bandmate
D. Woods her best friend and porn legend Jenna Jameson one of her good
friends.
Aubrey told Complex magazine that she likes to watch porn as a hobby and
that her favorite porn star is Jameson. She further relayed that watching
videos of African American men having sex with Caucasian women is a fetish
of hers. In a radio interview on February 19, 2009 with The Junkies on 106.7
WJFK-FM in Washington D.C., however, she said that her comments about
African American/Caucasian porn to Complex "were blown out of proportion"
and that she was only describing the most recent porn video that she had
watched.
In an August 2008 interview, Aubrey stated she was increasingly irritated
with people pigeonholing her sexuality; stating that she looks for
"incredible passion and honest love" and not at gender. On December 15,
2008, Fox News reported that Aubrey attended a party accompanied with her
girlfriend/lover, according to an anonymous friend in attendance. When
questioned by UsMagazine.com regarding the gay rumors, Aubrey did not
confirm or deny the speculation about her sexuality, and once again stated
that she could not say "one way or another" what her sexual preference is at
this point in her life. In 2009, while on the show Chelsea Lately, when
asked about being bisexual, she replied, "Generally, I don't like to label
myself... I want to find someone I'm passionate about, and I don't want to
limit myself to one segment of the population."
During the 2008 presidential election campaign in the United States, Aubrey
supported Barack Obama for President. Earlier, before her departure from the
group, she got Danity Kane's bar codes from their first two albums tattooed
on the back of her neck.
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